Well, Ain’t That Something!

I found something very interesting today while filling in the blanks on my tree:  my father and his adoptive father are third cousins once removed (I think I have that right!).  Wow!

 

My father’s birth family:

Roger Dale Ray (Robert Jewell Vincent, my father)

Elbert Tracey “Shorty” Vincent (his father)

Lucy Johnson Breedlove (his grandmother)

Margaret Stringer (his great-grandmother)

Gray Stringer (his 2nd great-grandmother)

Lawrence Stringer and Sallie Pitt (his 3rd great-grandparents)

 

My father’s adoptive family:

Roger Dale Ray (Robert Jewell Vincent, my father)

Omer Ellis Haynes "Buster" Ray (his adoptive father)

John Wilson Ray (his adoptive grandfather)

Margaret Miller (his adoptive great-grandmother)

Anzeline Stringer (his adoptive 2nd great-grandmother)

Lawrence Stringer and Sallie Pitt (his 3rd great-grandparents)

 

This also makes Anzeline Stringer my father’s 2nd great-grand aunt. 

And it makes my father his own 4th cousin through adoption.

It gave me the giggles.  He was adopted into his own family!

Elizabeth Pitt

My relationship to Elizabeth Pitt:

Me

Roger Dale Ray (Robert Jewell Vincent, father)

Elbert “Shorty” Tracey Vincent (grandfather)

Lucy Johnson Breedlove (g-grandmother)

Margaret Stringer (gg-grandmother)

Elizabeth Pitt (ggg-grandmother)

 

(note:  I found all of these records on Ancestry)

 

Elizabeth Pitt was born December of 1817 in Kentucky to parents Joseph R Pitt (1762-1836) and Elizabeth Waller (1776-1839).  She more than likely was born in Muhlenberg County, Kentucky given that in 1810 her parents were living in Isle of Wight County, Virginia and had moved to Lewisburg, Muhlenberg County, Kentucky by 1820. 

 

Elizabeth married Gray Stringer on December 28, 1837 in Muhlenberg County, Kentucky.

Elizabeth Pitt and Gray Stringer Marriage Record

 

I can’t find them on the 1840 census, so they may have been living with relatives, possibly Gray’s parents.

 

In 1850 the Stringer family lived in Subdivision 2, Muhlenberg County, Kentucky.  Gray, age 41 years, was a farmer.  Elizabeth, age 32 years, kept house.  The children in the household were America (age 11 years), Lucy (age 9 years) and Margaret (age 7 years).  There was also a young man named Balis Stringer (age 15 years) listed as a laborer.  I haven’t yet figured out how he is related to the family.  If he were a son he would have been listed before America.  Since he is last on the family list he may be a nephew.

Elizabeth Pitt 1850 US Census

 

Gray died in 1857 leaving Elizabeth a widow.  In 1860 she is found living in McLean County, Kentucky.  Here she is 40 years of age.  The children living in the household with her are Virginia (age 8 years), Sally M (age 6 years) and John S (age 3 years).  Also living with the family are John D Beasley (farmer, age 20 years) and Lucy E Beasley (age 18 years).  I think that Lucy may be Elizabeth’s daughter, but I couldn’t find a marriage record for Lucy Stringer and John Beasley.  I did, however, find a marriage record for America Stringer and Johnson Beasley.  I thought that maybe America had passed and her husband remarried to her sister, but there are several America Beasleys on later census records who are widowed.  Any one of them could be her!

Elizabeth Pitt 1860 US Census

 

The 1870 census shows Elizabeth remarried and living in Sacramento, McLean County, Kentucky.  Her husband Joseph C Moore is shown as head of household, a farmer and age 54 years.  Elizabeth is listed as 53 years of age.  The children living in the household are Virginia Stringer (age 18 years), Sallie Stringer (age 16 years), John Stringer (age 13 years) and Benjamin Stringer (age 3 years).  We will find in a later census record that Benjamin Stringer is her grandson.  We will also end up being very confused by Benjamin Stringer.  Also, I haven’t found a marriage record for Elizabeth to Joseph.

Elizabeth Pitt 1870 US Census

 

I assume by 1880 Joseph C Moore has passed.  Elizabeth is shown living in District 19, Sacramento, McLean County, Kentucky by herself.  She is listed as Elizabeth W Moore, age 58 years.

Elizabeth Pitt 1880 US Census

 

No census for 1890…of course.

 

In 1900 Elizabeth is head of household in District 98, Sacramento, McLean County, Kentucky.  Her last name is not legible at all, so I don’t know if she remarried after Joseph C Moore died.  She is listed as 82 years of age and widowed.  Living with her is Ben A Moore, her grandson, age 36 years.  Ben A Moore is the same person as Benjamin Stringer listed in the 1870 census.  If we go back and look at the records for Elizabeth’s daughter Margaret then we will see that Benjamin is her son, but I don’t know who his father was.

Elizabeth Pitt 1900 US Census

 

Elizabeth Pitt died sometime after the 1900 census, but I am not sure when.  I cannot find any death or burial records for her.  Her parents are buried in McLean County, Kentucky, but she doesn’t appear to be buried in the same cemetery.  Like I said, I don’t know if she ever remarried after Joseph died, nor do I know if she and Joseph were actually married or if they were common law married.  Either way, I haven’t yet found her grave.

Margaret Stringer

I have been putting off writing about Margaret Stringer day after day because there are so many odd things about this woman that I can’t make sense of it all.  And I want to blame the census records for this, but I don’t know if that’s the problem I am having.  The thing is, I can’t find her on the 1860 or the 1870 census.  At all.  Nothing, really.  I don’t know which name to look for, actually.  As in, I have looked for several names she may have gone by, but I can’t find any of them.  Of course, it could be a case where I am seeing it, like it’s right in front of me, and it just isn’t registering for some reason.

Margaret Stringer was born January 11, 1843 in Kentucky.  Her parents are Gray Stringer and Elizabeth Pitt.  Now, some of this is going to go into Elizabeth Pitt’s life, too, but stay with me here because it gets interesting.

In 1850 Margaret was living with her parents in Muhlenberg County, Kentucky.  She was 7 years old.  Her siblings that lived in the home were: America (age 11 years) and Lucy (age 9 years).  There is also a Balis Stringer, age 15 years, living with the family, but I haven’t figured out how he is related to them yet.  I keep seeing websites that list him as the son of Gray and Elizabeth, but I don’t see the basis for that yet.  I searched for a death record for him, but was unable to find it.  AND usually the children on census records are listed in order of birth, oldest first.  On the 1850 census Balis is listed last.  He shows up 10 years later in Missouri as a 26 year old blacksmith, which kind of disproves the websites claiming him as the Stringer family’s son since they all claim he, too, was born in 1843 making him Margaret’s twin (or Elizabeth getting pregnant with him soon after Margaret was born).

As I said before, I cannot find Margaret Stringer on the 1860 or 1870 census.  I was told by a descendant of Margaret’s sister, Lucy, that Margaret married a John Pitt.  I found a marriage record for John S Pitt and MK Stringer in McLean County, Kentucky on May 24, 1850.  So that information matches up.  It’s kind of bizarre when you think about it though:  Gray Stringer’s mother was Sallie Pitt.  Gray married his cousin, Elizabeth Pitt.  Then Margaret married a cousin, John S Pitt.  Anyway, at some point Margaret and John S Pitt divorce and she may or may not have married a Moore.  (note:  keep this fact in mind:  after Gray Stringer died his wife Elizabeth married Joseph C Moore).  I haven’t found anything saying that she did, but there is a reason for this coming up (I promise).

By 1880 Margaret married John J Breedlove.  They show up this year on the census living in Sacramento, McLean County, Kentucky.  The children living with them are: Emma (listed as a Breedlove, but she is also listed as John’s stepdaughter…so she was either a Pitt or a Moore, but I am not sure which one, age 11 years), Mary Jane (age 7 years), Ona L (age 5 years) and William M (age 3 years).

No census for 1890.

In 1900 the Breedlove family was still living in Sacramento, McLean County, Kentucky.  Margaret is listed as Margaret K Breedlove.  The children listed on the 1880 census are no longer living with Margaret and John.  Two more daughters are on this census:  Lucy J (my great-grandmother, age 18 years) and Drusy B (age 15 years).  Also living with the family are two of Margaret’s grandchildren:  Magnola Lovell (age 4 years) and Mack Lovell (age 1 year).  According to Mack’s death certificate the parents of Magnola and Mack are Jim Lovell and Lulu Breedlove.  I’m not sure if Lulu is the nickname of one of the daughters listed or not.  This census also tells us that Margaret is the mother of nine children and only five are still living.  I haven’t figured out all of the children yet.  As you can see I have listed six of the children.

In 1910 Margaret and John are still in McLean County, Kentucky.  But a new person is on the census with them:  Benjamin A Moore.  Someone had scratched out his last name Moore, though.  So it looks as though he is a Breedlove.  But he isn’t (more on Moore in a second..haha).  Benjamin is listed as 47 years old, single and John’s stepson.  Margaret is still the mother of nine children of which five are still living.  So now we have 7 of her children listed:  Benjamin A Moore, Emma (last name?), Mary Jane Breedlove, Ona L Breedlove, William M Breedlove, Lucy J Breedlove and Drusy B Breedlove.  I do not have any clue who the other two are.  Lulu?  Perhaps, unless, as I said before, that is just a nickname for one of the children listed.

In 1920 Margaret is listed on the census as Margaret H Breedlove.  She is living with her son, listed as Ben A Moore, and her sister Virginia in McLean County, Kentucky.  She is widowed and her son is named as the head of household.

Margaret Stringer died on December 7, 1924 in Island, McLean County, Kentucky.  The cause of death was arteriosclerosis, which she apparently (according to the death certificate) had suffered from for several years.  The contributor to the cause was apoplexy (bleeding, which could have been anything).

Margaret Stringer Death Certificate

Now, for a little something extra concerning Benjamin A Moore that is a little off:  Benjamin A Moore is shown living with Margaret’s mother and her second husband, Joseph C Moore, on several census records.  It isn’t until Elizabeth, Margaret’s mother dies, that he lives with Margaret.  On his death certificate it says that his mother is Margaret and his father is Joseph Moore.  So, did Margaret have a “thing” with her stepfather?  Or is it a different Joseph Moore?  Maybe the informant knew he was Margaret’s son, but didn’t know who the father was and just put Joseph’s name on the certificate knowing that Ben had pretty much been raised by him.  Why wasn’t Ben living with his mother growing up?  And who is Emma’s father?  Or what if Joseph C Moore wanted children and Elizabeth wasn’t able to have any more for some reason?  Would she have asked her daughter to surrogate for her?  Benjamin was born about 1864 (according to census records).  Emma was born about 1869 (according to the 1880 census record).  Could they have had the same father or different fathers?  Could Benjamin have been Margaret’s with John S Pitt and just took the Moore last name because he was raised by Moore?  I just don’t know. 

And I really wish I could find those census records.

Gray Stringer

Oh, another one of those ancestors, huh?

Something I continuously notice on ancestry that irks me to no end is when people put up random information that just does not fit with no explanation or source as to where they got the information.  And they don’t answer emails asking about their sources.  AND ten other people decide that since that person has far more information than they do then they must be right.  And I have seen many, many times that they are wrong.

I am only going to present the information that I know.  Which isn’t much, by the way.

(this might be a really short post)

I know that Gray Stringer was born sometime between 1807 and 1809 in Tennessee to Larry Stringer and S. Stringer (those names are listed on the death record).  Presumably his parents are Lawrence Stringer, of North Carolina, and Sallie Pitt, also of North Carolina.  Larry and Sallie married in Tennessee in 1796, according to the Family Data Collection.

Gray married Elizabeth Pitt, who I believe is his cousin, in Muhlenberg County, Kentucky on December 28, 1837.  The marriage was officiated by Reverend John Gray (Muhlenberg marriage Book Two).

The one and only census record that Gray Stringer’s name appears on is the 1850 census enumerated in Muhlenberg County, Kentucky.  He is listed as 41 years old and a farmer.  He is living with his wife Elizabeth (age 32 years), daughter America (age 11 years), daughter Lucy (age 9 years), daughter Margaret (my great-great-grandmother, age 7 years) and a boy by the name of Balis Stringer (age 15 years) that I have seen listed on other’s family trees as Gray and Elizabeth’s son, along with a girl named Jennie as their daughter, but I have not seen how they came to this conclusion.  Balis is later seen on the 1860 census living in New Madrid, Missouri with William Douglass, a ship carpenter, and his family.  Balis is a blacksmith.

Gray Stringer passed on October 6, 1857 in McLean County, Kentucky.  The cause of death was apoplexy, which really could have been almost anything.

Gray Stringer Death Record

According to the 1860 census, Elizabeth was widowed, but she and Gray had three more children before he died:  daughter Virginia J (age 8 years in 1860), Sally M (age 6 years in 1860) and John S (age 3 years in 1860).

It’s pretty sad that I don’t have any other information to write about him.  Maybe someone out there has some stories!